tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post3146475972453546326..comments2023-02-11T04:47:55.030-08:00Comments on Biz Bitch: How to Avoid Doing AnythingBiz Bitchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12610120385189464752noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-90677092124201018322010-04-09T14:31:36.464-07:002010-04-09T14:31:36.464-07:00Dear VoIp Call Center:
I tried to follow-up with ...Dear VoIp Call Center:<br /><br />I tried to follow-up with you but unfortunately your Voip Call Center link takes me to an empty blogger box with no information. The loanhomeonline.com link took me to an interesting program with no contact information other than a common info request. I googled VoIP Call Center and found a lot of stuff but no contact info. <br /><br />I can only say that from what I have read about the Loan Home for Organizations program, it may not be possible for the Hawaii Women's Business Center to participate in this program. They are funded in part by a federal grant from the SBA, which has tight controls on what they may or may not do. <br /><br />The Hawaii Women's Business Center is an excellent resource for getting a small business loan under one of several federal SBA programs. These loans are strictly small business loans, but have excellent terms, consumer-friendly repayment plans and, because they are guaranteed in part by the federal government, many banks are more willing to lend the needed money.<br /><br />There may be restrictions written into the SBA contract, however, that would disallow direct participation in outside home loan programs, however. Since I am no longer ED at the Center, I can only suggest that you contact them directly at www.HWBC.org<br /><br />But thanks for the suggestion!Biz Bitchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12610120385189464752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-22504543403699959592010-04-09T09:10:06.203-07:002010-04-09T09:10:06.203-07:00I know your in non-profit so way don't you che...I know your in non-profit so way don't you check this out for work.<br /><br />I wanted to get this video into your hands as I felt it would be a great program for your organization to use as so many others have. Here is the link to the brief video overview:<br />Introduction to Loan Home for Organizations<br />I look forward to following up with you once you've had a chance to review the information.<br /><br />http://www.loanhomeonline.com/organizations?a=56717Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17450281132222223671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-80626917773009733772010-03-17T20:30:26.882-07:002010-03-17T20:30:26.882-07:00The fact that you are able to talk about your life...The fact that you are able to talk about your life in the "stuck" zone with such humour leads me to believe that you will move out of it soon. Maybe on some level it's O.K. that you lost your last job, because there is something better out there waiting - something more appropriate for you at this time.<br /><br />Still, it's that in between "stuck" space, that is stressful & just doesn't feel good - waiting for the sign to do.......what next? I have felt stuck more times than I care to remember, and did find a few tricks which prevented my life and household from getting way out of control. Don't know if this would work for you, but it did for me.<br /><br />I have certain pieces of music that just seem to boost my energy level, so I'd put them and just couldn't feel depressed while listening. It was the oddest thing, but it was like flipping a switch.<br /><br />Then, I took some B complex several times a day B complex is rapidly depleted when you're under stress)along with a natural stress relief formula. This helped me cope better and move through the inertia.<br /><br />Now, this next trick I fought like the devil, but it worked - I made a list of things to do in the order of most importance and promised to start and finish at least four things that day. I mapped out on paper the specific times/hours I would devote to these tasks each day and then crossed them off my list upon completion. I did not answer the phone at this time or let anything interrupt.<br /><br />I also scheduled times to get out of the house, leave it behind and do some fun physical activity like walking or dancing.The physical exercize made me feel so much better and gave my mind a rest since I had to focus on something else. <br /><br />There are other tricks too, but it's getting late and I promised to clear up the coffee table before going to bed! LOL <br /><br />Keep writing,Kay:It's one of your gifts - SusanSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02480119321403664201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-79588174212034445712010-03-17T08:59:39.118-07:002010-03-17T08:59:39.118-07:00Hello Kay,
I can totally understand your position,...Hello Kay,<br />I can totally understand your position, especially when you or someone you know is in that "stuck" area. No job, no options and things just seem to keep swirling and swirling.<br /><br />I am dealing with the opposite side of watching someone, a dear loved one swirl around. But I know that they are better than that and can do better, but sometimes it just helps to hear it from someone else who is going through it.<br /><br />It shows that we are all human and susceptible to life.<br /><br />Keep your head up!<br /><br />Carol Dunlop<br />www.optimumbodysculpting.com/fitblogCarol D - Bodysculpterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11179707190797048095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-62557501636303622542010-03-15T09:03:38.517-07:002010-03-15T09:03:38.517-07:00Thank you for this wonderful post. It is true that...Thank you for this wonderful post. It is true that people can spy on you through the video lens in your laptop. That is the only way you could see so clearly into my world. <br /><br />I am a huge fan of the "box" method to declutter, and now I will save money using the Cosco resources. <br /><br />And talk about innovation - I love the idea of using the washer and dryer as night stands. <br /><br />My personal perspective is that simply by noticing that you are stuck is the beginning of moving toward becoming unstuck! <br /><br />Joyfully yours,<br />Mary ElizabethMary Elizabeth Murphy, CPCC, ORSCChttp://www.resetyourbuttons.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-10210409978830123732010-03-15T08:19:45.357-07:002010-03-15T08:19:45.357-07:00Hi Kay
Hello from even further than the other sid...Hi Kay<br /><br />Hello from even further than the other side of the pond - London, England. No, I haven't met the Queen and I don't know your friend John who also lives in England. However, I have just had some tea and might even have a scone later. And if you don't know what a scone is, go and read Jeeves & Wooster by P.G.Wodehouse. I say, what-ho! Dash it all, what?!<br /><br />Now that I've got my Very British Drivel opening out of my system, I must say that I loved this post. I may be a tea-drinking, scone-eating Brit, but some of it was pretty much like reading my diary from today (had I written one - too busy watching a re-run of the first Formula 1 grand prix of the year to do that.)<br /><br />Time wasting, procrastinating, and kidding myself that I'm doing something constructive is all part of the creative process, it seems to me. Unless you're George Bernard Shaw - and you aren't, because he's dead - then does anyone really, I mean *really* sit down from 9-5 each day and write? I'm at my most creative in the evenings. But then again, evenings is when I have my guilty pleasures like Heroes, Ugly Betty and Desperate Housewives. Yes, yes, I know - all complete nonsense. And yet strangely addictive. I think the fact that I want to punch Teri Hatcher most of the time is the reason I watch it. And I'm so appalled by some of the acting in Ugly Betty that it feeds my inner psycho. Heroes? Gotta love Hiro...<br /><br />See? There I go again - talking drivel. I haven't even mentioned your Costco boxes. Maybe I'll save that for another day when I have more, er, time...<br /><br />AshleyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-69067376013665601792010-03-14T18:46:34.069-07:002010-03-14T18:46:34.069-07:00A sunny day (finally) and pruning shears = therapy...A sunny day (finally) and pruning shears = therapy! <br /><br />Now if only someone could prune my dead wood, and maybe fix my aching back too. <br /><br />Susan Copenhaver, CID, IIDA<br />Norfolk, VirginiaSusanhttp://www.linkedin.com/in/facilitiesbydesignnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-15389053078357811272010-03-14T12:22:06.178-07:002010-03-14T12:22:06.178-07:00Hope you get yourself back soon, your tips on proc...Hope you get yourself back soon, your tips on procrastination however are excellent :-)<br /><br />Will keep an eye out for the right kind of 'housework help' boxes when I am next in Costco :-)<br /><br />SarahSarah Arrowhttp://www.birdsontheblog.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-77084479282608904312010-03-14T03:07:19.555-07:002010-03-14T03:07:19.555-07:00Kay, I have gotten stuck any number of times in my...Kay, I have gotten stuck any number of times in my life. What you need is inspiration, girlfriend. I went back and read a number of other posts and I'm lovin' it! Your tale of being hacked on Twitter is awesome. Love your stories about job hunting and recruiter tips. Somehow, you manage to combine a lot of information into a blog that is entertaining and fun to read. The only person who doesn't seem to love you is you!<br /><br />And the blog name is priceless. You have real moxie. (Yes, Seth, we talk like that in Omaha.)<br /><br />Samantha BrothersSam Brothershttp://www.mutualofomaha.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-41178679370438738872010-03-13T14:55:09.569-08:002010-03-13T14:55:09.569-08:00Kay, your blog is totally entertaining. Are you st...Kay, your blog is totally entertaining. Are you stuck or just fallen into a niche? It sounds like you could use some of the skills you are playing with now. I just wrote a blog you might like "4 Tips to Break the Stuck Spell." http://firedupforsuccess.blogspot.com .<br /><br />Mary Lyn Miller<br />Redondo Beach, CaliforniaMary Lynhttp://www.firedupforsuccess.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-10002953122776408512010-03-13T12:29:35.263-08:002010-03-13T12:29:35.263-08:00Great post! It is hard to feel the motivation to d...Great post! It is hard to feel the motivation to do housework when you're in a slump. Thanks for the tips! Most ingenious :-) <br /><br />Yip the luge guys are completely barmy - I'd say more but I need to head to the supermarket to find some storage trays ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027028952998373863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-51570517348723732222010-03-12T17:20:28.093-08:002010-03-12T17:20:28.093-08:00Love your screen name: I wanted to name my alter e...Love your screen name: I wanted to name my alter ego blog DangerousChicks.com to talk about all the things no one really says out loud, but are thinking.<br /><br />Haha, Been there, done that :-) You are not alone...I sweep things into boxes to do at a later, much later time when I just don't have the energy to tackle it. Good tip.Melissa D. Nourigathttp://crystalclearsolutions.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-68130979707829684462010-03-12T13:02:39.530-08:002010-03-12T13:02:39.530-08:00Kay, bravo to a well-written article. I completel...Kay, bravo to a well-written article. I completely understand the stuck feeling as I, too, am on the search for employment and get frustrated myself. However, I have the opposite problem. Although I am not a neat freak by any means and can wallow with the best, when I'm ultra-stressed, I get to cleaning. I think I've steamed my carpet 5 times in the last 4 months and my windows sparkle. My friends always know when I'm not at my best; when my apartment is perfectly spotless, there's a storm brewing!!<br /><br />Hang in there, Kay! But you just may be onto something with these tips. A book deal coming maybe? Weirder blogs have made it happen! ;-)<br /><br />PatriciaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-77543808033948272002010-03-11T01:33:34.250-08:002010-03-11T01:33:34.250-08:00Actually, I quite agree with these ideas. In fact...Actually, I quite agree with these ideas. In fact, I have held a long philosophy that when you can’t do anything to make yourself feel better, go out and try to make someone else feel better. It is for this reason that I regularly work with the Family Promise Homeless program. My husband and I have an 80-year-old friend that we try to take out to Sunday brunch and/or a movie each week. I virtually always give rides to at least two or three folks after religious services each week. It’s a good thing to make other people feel better. That doesn’t necessarily mean that it changes the way you personally feel, however. You do it because it’s the right thing to do. Not because you think it will be of any benefit to you – that’s just another road to disappointment. Now that the Olympics are over, however, I have taken Laurel excellent advice and am planning to move my allegiance from ice dancing to Dancing With the Stars (although during this “gap period” I am watching American Idol). As I said before, it’s difficult but one makes due.Biz Bitchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12610120385189464752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-39402929098511374122010-03-11T01:08:52.567-08:002010-03-11T01:08:52.567-08:00Absolutely. Try doing something for someone else ...Absolutely. Try doing something for someone else you think might be stuck or "down" and offer them help. For example, phone someone who is grieving a loss, make a dinner for someone who is sick, call someone you think is lonely. It gets us out of ourselves and being productive and compassionate--a great cure for the blues or being stuck. <br /><br />Nannette Rundle Carroll<br />Author, The Comunication Problem Solver<br />Owner, Professional Training Consultant<br />San Francisco Bay AreaNannettehttp://www.communicate2go.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-51231713486694076542010-03-09T20:26:58.624-08:002010-03-09T20:26:58.624-08:00Being stuck in life is a state of mind, and sadly,...Being stuck in life is a state of mind, and sadly, it reflects a focus on the self. The best cure for being stuck is to look around, enjoy what you have, and think of how can you make a difference in someone else's life! Instant joy and satisfaction follow. You work on this every day and pull yourself together, and one day you wonder when someone uses that expression "stuck in life", why would he/she think that! Good luck :) <br /><br />Stefany Almaden<br />President/CEO the Almaden Group, Inc.<br />Hospital and Health Care Consultant<br />Pasadena, CaliforniaStefany Almadenhttp://www.almadencare.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-46396868072853815542010-03-09T20:08:23.791-08:002010-03-09T20:08:23.791-08:00Life is too short to be "stuck". If you ...Life is too short to be "stuck". If you feel stuck, try a new activity - dancing, yoga, join a hiking group. About 10 years ago, I felt "stuck" & decided to get out of my comfort zone & raise money for Leukemia & train for a marathon. Along the way, I met wonderful new friends, traveled to Alaska, and helped a worthy cause. <br /><br />I just got back from a trip to Cabo taking my young adult sons - age 27 & 29 & encouraging them to get outside of their comfort zone - parasailing & snorkeling. What great fun to enjoy watching your family learn something new. <br /><br />PS: Probably my most amazing trip was for my 50th birthday - 2 years ago - traveled with my significant other, Nick, through Morocco & the night before my birthday rode a camel into the Sahara dessert - woke up on my 50th to the sunrise in the Sahara. <br /><br />Terri Weber<br />Member Relationship Manager<br />Greater Louisville Metro Chamber of Commerce<br />Louisville, KentuckyTerri Weberhttp://www.linkedin.com/in/terriwebernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-35975472681814774932010-03-09T19:26:54.726-08:002010-03-09T19:26:54.726-08:00Never stop believing in yourself! I believe we hav...Never stop believing in yourself! I believe we have all felt "stuck" at some point in our lives. Whether it was from a career change or boredom, from doing the same mundane tasks day in and day out. You have to believe that there is a light at the end of the tunnel no matter how long that tunnel may seem. You will eventually get to another destination that will bring you new challenges and experiences. Having friends and family that inspire you is priceless. I always think about my children even though they are all young adults. They keep me going when times are tough. We all have are own beacons to guide and light the way. Find it and inspire yourself! <br /><br />Marcela Fink<br />President/Owner, Choice Technology, Inc.<br />Maimi/Fort Lauderdale AreaMarcela Finkhttp://www.choicetech.ws/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-44007473818044253732010-03-09T17:48:54.291-08:002010-03-09T17:48:54.291-08:00I do a radio show and I have a fabulous interview ...I do a radio show and I have a fabulous interview with Libby Gill, an internationally respected executive coach, speaker and bestselling author. Her tips on how to get unstuck at work and in life might be helpful http://tinyurl.com/yzhbhbo <br /><br />I also tell my clients and listeners: whenever you feel stuck, take a 3-min break to breath (to relax), have an orange to boost immunity and get in a better mood (the skin) and to think how to get out of your comfort zone:-) <br /><br />Breathe, smile and be happy.<br /><br />Irina Wardas <br />Owner at NaturalCounselor.com<br />San Diego, CaliforniaIrina Wardashttp://www.linkedin.com/in/irinawardasnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-89586485798292729202010-03-09T15:45:41.309-08:002010-03-09T15:45:41.309-08:00In March of 2003 I was diagnosed with advanced sta...In March of 2003 I was diagnosed with advanced stage glaucoma and lost sight in my right eye and partial sight in my left eye. I needed four surgeries and time to readjust to a life without sight. I felt powerless because I was financially dependent on my family. I lost my identity, my purpose and most of all the choice to be authentic. <br /><br />I needed to work from home, since driving was no longer an option and became a life coach and motivational speaker. My message became the importance to live your own the life regardless of your circumstances. I woke up one day and decided I was going to live by my own values, and make my own lifestyle choices. My life began to dramatically change. <br /><br />The wall color and hand-me-down furniture in my home symbolized the control and influence I allowed others to have in my environment. I felt locked into other peoples’ values and decisions. When I made some different personal choices and simple changes I began to experience the power of Positive change. This decision represents a whole lifestyle change not just a wall color, but it started with the choice to create my environment and paint my walls green. I am no longer "tolerating" other people's choices in my environment. <br /><br />To be totally authentic we must take responsibility for our decisions. <br />Think about your own life. Look around you, your home, and your workspace; does it reflect "you"? Or does it reflect other people's choices. <br /><br />I didn’t know it was my choice all along! <br />Check out my newly released book "Paint Your Walls Green, Six Keys to Unlock the Power of Positive Change" on my website at www.jblifecoach.com <br /><br />Janie Behr<br />Louisville, KentuckyJanie Behrhttp://www.jblifecoach.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-33347565264438637442010-03-08T02:16:44.957-08:002010-03-08T02:16:44.957-08:00Yo (that's how we say hi in Philadelphia) Kay,...Yo (that's how we say hi in Philadelphia) Kay,<br /><br />I must say this blog on being stuck made me giggle. I enjoy a good irreverent sense of humor - as opposed to corporate speak or new age buzz words.<br /><br />I have worked as an attorney, psychologist, and a career and life coach. I understand the challenges of career change, and how being unhappy in your work can be a drain on your entire life. I find most people need some direction and guidance to get "unstuck". <br /><br />You definitely have a dry wit and the ability to poke fun at the ridiculousness of the usual moribund hiring practices. These are two talents you may want to consider when you are ready to face the world again. <br /><br />If you or your readers are interested, I would be happy to consult on how to use creative brainstorming to get "unstuck" in the future. In the meantime, have some fun and vent - this is not a waste of time. Self-healing comes in many forms. <br /><br />Decorating tip: A good friend of mine uses brightly colored fabrics from the polynesian islands to hide his apartment clutter. The designs are so beautiful, that no one focuses on what is underneath the fabric. <br /><br />Best wishes!<br /><br />Dr. Seth Kaufman<br />Creative Vision Coaching<br />Philadelphia, PASeth Kaufmanhttp://www.creativevisioncoaching.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-87471370103090037472010-03-06T19:11:26.487-08:002010-03-06T19:11:26.487-08:00I was so glad I was wearing my LBL protection and ...I was so glad I was wearing my LBL protection and not drinking any liquid while reading this one. <br /><br />Love the blog, Kay. It's so real because I just came out of a period like that. I'm working on a book about it. How stuck was I? So stuck Super Glue is suing for patent infringement...<br /><br />I have been enjoying all the comments too. What I discovered is that "stuck" is really a human thing, not a personal character flaw. It's part and parcel of the grief/mourning stage of dealing with the loss of your job. Laugh when you can. Be especially forgiving to yourself. Face the cold of "career winter" with thanks and good cheer. Be with your friends. This too shall pass.<br /><br />Edis Stanford-Bruce<br />Creative Writer<br />Reston, VAEdiahttp://www.ebwordcraft.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-48571598074350030872010-03-06T00:43:42.385-08:002010-03-06T00:43:42.385-08:00Funny, funny stuff. Maybe you need a change of pr...Funny, funny stuff. Maybe you need a change of profession. Have you considered writing full time?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-24567888031691721322010-03-05T18:49:04.642-08:002010-03-05T18:49:04.642-08:00Kay, I'm so stuck I decided to just settle in ...Kay, I'm so stuck I decided to just settle in here and decorate. Also, I read. One book I recommend is "Getting Unstuck" by Timothy Butler. That said, it seems like the smartest people I know advise: Be stuck until you don't feel like being stuck anymore.<br /><br />Christine Osborne<br />Transition Navigator at Discovering What's Next & Creative Director/Writer <br />Greater Boston AreaChristine Osbornehttp://www.linkedin.com/in/christineosbornenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5695019530574266085.post-43882101892521869572010-03-05T17:12:59.313-08:002010-03-05T17:12:59.313-08:00Kay, we have missed your pithy comments and your h...Kay, we have missed your pithy comments and your hilarious honesty about life in and out of business. It's good to have you back. <br /><br />My wife thanks you for the tip about the Costco boxes. She never thought of the stacking trick but now she's in Seventh Heaven. I'm not sure that this is a good thing.<br /><br />Keep 'em coming! You have an amazing way of putting a funny spin on even the most mundane of subjects.<br /><br />Bob Baldwin<br />AtlantaRobert B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16086964184122563523noreply@blogger.com